Our society puts so much emphasis on orgasms as the be-all-end-all of sex and, yes, they feel great but this attitude can be really problematic- especially for folks who struggle to achieve orgasm. From nerve damage to medication side effects and beyond there are multiple physical causes for anorgasmia (that’s the fancy word for not being able to have an orgasm!). Luckily experts seem to agree that the Magic Wand massager could be the key to unlocking your orgasms.
Sex educator Ducky Doolittle says in her super-popular class, The Art of The Female Orgasm, that many people struggle with orgasm to due clitoral insensitivity brought on by pelvic injuries they may not even remember. “These injuries sometimes happen to us as girls when playing on the monkey bars, gymnastics balance beams or by hitting your pelvis on the center bar of a boys-style bike.” says Doolittle. She recommends using a high-powered massager like the Magic Wand massager 2-3 times a week to “break down the scar tissue and wake up your nerve endings.”
Writer and researcher JoEllen Notte is an expert on sex and depression. She discusses anorgasmia and genital numbness as two often-reported side effects of antidepressants. Notte often recommends the use of large wands like the Magic Wand massager to people struggling with these issues. “You may find you need something substantially stronger than you are used to using in order to ‘get through’ the effects of the meds and find your orgasm,” says Notte. That’s not all, she’s also a fan of wand explorations because “large wands also cover more surface area which may result in stimulating parts you aren’t used to stimulating.”
So, if you’re struggling to get to orgasm, experts agree the Magic Wand massager could be the answer!